The Inner Marriage online training

A training in non-dual psychology, shadow work, and sexual polarity, based on the work of Elliott Saxby.

Path 1

Self-development

The training itself. Learn the polarity framework and how to use it in your own life.

€197 €394 full price

Join the pre-sale, €197
Or three monthly payments of €75

Path 2

Practitioner path

Everything in self-development, plus a live video assessment with Elliott Saxby at the end of your study, followed by a certificate of completion and an optional listing in our practitioner directory.

For people who want to offer non-dual psychology professionally, and for anyone who simply wants more from their study time, and a personal conversation at the end of it.

€347 €694 full price

Join the practitioner path, €347
Or three monthly payments of €135

Try it before you read this sales pitch

The Mirror is a free tool you can use right now.

Describe something that is actually happening in your life, and it will show you the polarised emotional patterning underneath your situations, behaviours and relationships. It uses a major part of the framework this training teaches.

It takes a few minutes, and it will tell you more than this page can.

Use the Mirror, free

If what comes back is insightful, come back here and keep reading.

The training is where you learn to embody it, so you can reflect on your own processes and relationships, and support other people, without needing the tool.

What you actually learn

The framework is four quadrants. Masculine and feminine, mature and immature, plus the shadow.

You learn to work with the paradox of emotions through polarity. To see where a feeling, a behaviour, a trait or a value is sitting on the framework, and what moves it. Either so that you become a healthier reflection for someone else, or so that you receive healthier reflections in your own life.

This is not about labelling yourself. It teaches you to be non-attached and still feel.

"I am…" and "you are…" become "I am being…" and "you are acting…". And when we really speak from non-attachment, "my inner mature masculine is being…, my inner immature feminine is acting…", we quickly realise we are much more than the mind having these thoughts. We can still enjoy the thoughts. We can still play this game of attachment, this human experience.

Nothing on the map is fixed, and that is the point of it.

As we judge less and attachment falls away, we use the framework to build emotional intelligence, and eventually to move beyond emotion into higher virtues, while staying true to what is and to how we feel in the moment.

Some of what we explore on the way to realising spiritual truth:

  • what to do when the mature trait you need feels completely out of reach
  • why deliberately reducing a trait that is not your problem can solve the one that is
  • what to do when this work brings something up that is not ready to be healed or discussed

Who this is for

People who have already done some of this work, and people who want to be assessed by me and listed on this site as a practitioner.

Who it is not for

This work does not suit people who are unable or unwilling to be honest with themselves or others. It reflects what is true, and then supports us to evolve and transform whatever that truth is.

It is also not therapy and it treats nothing. It is a way of seeing.

You do not need to have read the book. The training teaches the same framework in more depth, and if you have read it, this is where it becomes something you can use.

PRE-SALE

This is a pre-sale.

This is my 3rd course that starts in PRE-SALE.

I love PRE-SALE as it keeps the artistic impulse and creativity flowing.

Our PRE-SALEs mean that there is already more than enough value and content to warrant the sale price, and then we just keep adding more, for as long as people invest during the PRE-SALE.

If it sells well, I start hiring more people to work on and improve the course, and just keep filling the bonus sections. If sales are low, I finish it myself, and you still get the whole course, just without the extras.

The other two great things about PRE-SALE are, as the buyer/student:

  • you can give feedback along the way to help us improve the course
  • and once the PRE-SALE ends, the price doubles. The course comes with 24 months access rather than lifetime, so we reset your 24 months back to day one, and all the time you spent inside the PRE-SALE is free.

And of course when our courses do well enough, this also allows us to create mini communities around the course so you can safely connect with like minded people.

So many people loved the book about this work, let alone the AI program inside the course.

I think soon, non-dual psychology and the style of coaching that is being taught in this training will become a very valid alternative to studying both psychology and non-dualism.

What is ready today

You have access from the day you join until 24 months after the pre-sale ends

Many lessons are already live and published, PLUS at no extra cost you also get fifteen Mirror readings a day instead of one, to support you in learning the work and teaching it to others. The training notes teach you how to use the framework and embody the wisdom of the Mirror into your daily life.

Access

24 months, not lifetime.

If you join during the pre-sale, your 24 months resets to day one when the pre-sale ends.

Path 1

Self-development

The training itself. Learn the polarity framework and how to use it in your own life.

€197 €394 full price

Join the pre-sale, €197
Or three monthly payments of €75

Path 2

Practitioner path

Everything in self-development, plus a live video assessment with Elliott Saxby at the end of your study, followed by a certificate of completion and an optional listing in our practitioner directory.

For people who want to offer non-dual psychology professionally, and for anyone who simply wants more from their study time, and a personal conversation at the end of it.

€347 €694 full price

Join the practitioner path, €347
Or three monthly payments of €135