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Why Do Bad Things Happen
| How do we break the cycles of victimhood and collective suffering? Most problems and painful experiences are a mix of the collective consciousness expressing what is, and our personal vibrational frequency being reflected back to us by the law of attraction. For people who have been treated very badly to say, “that they attracted it”, can sound unacceptable, but when we are a baby, we are vulnerable, helpless, and we have no choice but to accept the vibrations of the people around us. We cannot fully exercise our free will because we cannot say “no”, or walk away. Unconsciously, we pick up vibrations such as abuse and neglect from people around us, that lead us later in life to attracting abuse, neglect, and feelings of unlovability, or whatever it is that we feel we have, but never chose or said yes to. Being bullied; being victimized; losing at sports; losing friends; losing at school, and losing in life; living in the shadow of our mother; or supporting the narcissist ego of our father. In each case on the subconscious level, we are asking them to be this for us and on an even deeper level, it is actually a part of our inner masculine or feminine that is doing it to us. |
| We are all doing it all to ourselves, and we will continue to do so for as long as it feels familiar and is a vibrational match for how we consciously and subconsciously feel. If vibrations were forced on to us when we were very small, before we could demonstrate free will and before we could speak, then later in life all we can do is attract and recreate similar patterns, until we come to a place where our free will is strong enough and our life conditions supportive enough that we can change and break our past conditioning. Taking responsibility for the painful experiences of our life, does not mean that we are guilty and our abusers innocent. It means, on the deepest level, that once we exercise free will and heal our traumas: physically, emotionally and mentally, we are able to take our power back, controlling our life with the vibrations we choose. We can only fully take back our power when we forgive both them and ourselves for creating the situation. We move from victim hood (immature feminine), into creative power (mature feminine) when we release our judgements (immature masculine) and take full responsibility for our life (mature masculine). |
| There comes a moment when we need to break the cycle and to start working for change in the collective consciousness. For areas in the world where war or slavery is sadly still a regular occurrence, then to change this pattern we need to work on the global governance issues that support it, allowing the mature masculine to lead more than he currently is, helping people on an individual level, to judge less and raise their vibration so they no longer attract it. |
| This passage was inspired by Chapter 14 of the book the Inner Marriage – The Mature Immature, Archetypes of Parenthood |
| Did you know you can now purchase the book on Audible? |